Quick facts and corrections for healthier conversations about intimacy
Myth
Women don’t think about sex much
Fact: Women do think about sex, but desire is often context-driven.
Myth
First time always hurts
Fact: Pain isn’t inevitable with preparation and comfort.
Myth
Women don’t enjoy casual sex
Fact: Many women enjoy it when they feel safe and respected.
Myth
Intercourse alone guarantees orgasm
Fact: Most women need clitoral stimulation for orgasm.
Myth
Older women lose interest in sex
Fact: Desire can continue and even improve with age.
Myth
Good sex is always spontaneous
Fact: Planned intimacy can be equally fulfilling.
Myth
Women are naturally less sexual than men
Fact: Sex drives vary widely, not by gender alone.
Myth
Masturbation is only for men
Fact: Self-exploration is normal and healthy for women.
Myth
Libido depends on partner attractiveness
Fact: Desire is shaped by stress, health, and mood.
Myth
Talking about sex kills the mood
Fact: Communication usually enhances intimacy.